Couples Only Group Activities
Parties
The main function of the group is providing monthly swingers parties. These are open to all members, with dates and venues published in our regular newsletter. Members throw the parties in their own homes and the group helps with the arrangements. We also pay the hosts a generous sum of money to cover costs.
When coming to a party, you will bring along whatever you want to drink as well as a communal plate of food. You will also want to take time over your preparation for the party, not only choosing sexy clothing but, more importantly, agreeing with your partner your own rules for how you will each behave.
When you arrive it will at first seem like any other party. This is because we keep the downstairs as a clothes-on area, which allows new members, or couples taking it slowly, to socialise in a sexually suggestive atmosphere but without feeling under pressure to do more than they are ready for. You will find yourself meeting people with a diverse interest in sex and swinging and, hopefully, will find yourself stimulated by the erotic atmosphere.
Where our parties differ is that you are invited to use the upstairs bedrooms for sex. Typically, you may meet a person or couple at the party you like and would like to have sex with. The conversation will get more intimate and if you are all sufficiently aroused, the fun will start in the bedroom. Some people are content if they find one partner in an evening; others, with larger appetites, may be looking for several encounters. Some couples will go upstairs with another couple for group sex, or swapping in the same room, whereas others will have agreed between themselves that they will separate and go off for sex individually.
Initially, some couples may prefer going upstairs and having sex together, either alone, or in the same room as other people. On the other hand you may prefer not to be active at all at a particular party. It is entirely up to you how far and fast you want to go, but do remember we are a group for swinging couples.
Other Events
Whilst the parties are the group’s main events, we also occasionally arrange other activities for our members. In the past these have included dinner evenings, outings to other swinging venues, and weekend breaks with some swinging after hours in the hotel. We are also open to suggestions from members as to other things you might enjoy.
Some of our members are interested in fetish groups, sauna groups and such like and organise groups to go to such events together. Frequently couples who meet at our parties exchange phone numbers and get together at a later date for a private rendezvous.
Your Committee
The group is organised by its members for its members. We have a committee that meets regularly to discuss the success of recent parties, plan future ones and generally ensure that the group is operating smoothly. All group members are given the contact details of a committee member who is there for them if they want to provide feedback to the committee, or if they have a concern that they want to talk about privately.
The committee is elected annually by existing members at an AGM, just like any other social group, and normally contains both experienced swingers and younger members relatively new to the scene. We believe it is this mix that keeps the group interesting and ready to change when new ways present themselves. Remember, we have no commercial interest to satisfy - we are free to evolve into the group that our members want.
Newsletter
The group newsletter is emailed to members every month and typically reports on the previous party and other events and gives date, venue and contact details of the next one. Through the newsletter we will update you on anything interesting that has been discussed at committee meetings and occasionally ask for your reaction to a new proposal. We also try to give advanced notice of future party dates for your diary.